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The percentage of U.S. adults who
say they are Jewish when asked about their religion has declined by about half
since the late 1950s and currently is a little less than 2%.
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The number of Americans with direct
Jewish ancestry or upbringing who consider themselves Jewish, yet describe
themselves as atheist, agnostic or having no particular religion, appears to be
rising and is now about 0.5% of the U.S. adult population.
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Even among Jews by religion, more
than half (55%) say being Jewish is mainly a matter of ancestry and culture,
and two-thirds say it is not necessary to believe in God to be Jewish.
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Two-thirds of Jews of no religion
say they are not raising their children Jewish or partially Jewish –
either by religion or aside from religion.
The alarm bells paraphrase
the immortal words uttered by the Wicked Witch of the West: “We’re shrinking!
We’re shrinking!” Will liberal Judaism disappear through assimilation? Is this
the end of us?
Miketz means “at
the end,” referring to the end of Joseph’s two-year hitch in Pharaoh’s one-star
dungeon. The notion of “the end”—be it the ominous specter the Pew Report holds
forth to some, or the conclusion of Joseph’s time in prison—evokes another
question about ends: What end do we have in mind when we choose how we will live
our Jewish lives— in our own heads and hearts, in our homes, and out in the
community?
Pondering Joseph’s
scheming efforts to test his brothers, who have come down to Egypt in search of
food during a famine in Eretz Yisrael: What end does Joseph have in mind? His
brother Judah’s straightforward behavior and response provide a sharp contrast.
Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook, in his commentary on Parshat Miketz in Shemot
HaRe’iyah, compares the brothers. Judah responds to present and pressing reality
because for him, it’s all about survival; the Jewish people must live apart
from other nations in order to preserve their heritage. Joseph, in contrast,
focuses on a future messianic goal when, nations
will walk by Your light (Isaiah 60:3). Joseph therefore concerns himself
with the greater world and the spiritual elevation of all people, not only
Israel.
Let’s explore
this a bit more. Consider Judah, the pragmatist and isolationist: He is focused
on his family and the internal discord caused by a bratty younger brother,
Joseph, who sows seeds of jealousy. When his brothers propose killing Joseph,
Judah convinces them to sell him to a traveling caravan of merchants and bring
home his blood-soaked cloak to convince their father Jacob that Joseph is gone,
once and for all (Genesis chapter 37). Judah seeks equilibrium in the family,
but he does not seek goodness or righteousness, either for his family or anyone
beyond the clan. His dealings with Tamar (chapter 38) are honest and
forthright, but again his focus is to resolve conflict within the clan. In Parshat
Miketz, confronted by Joseph’s scheme, Judah’s focus is on holding the
family together. He convinces Jacob that Benjamin must be permitted to travel
to Egypt to satisfy the needs of the Egyptian Prime Minister, or the family
will starve (43:8-9). Once Joseph reveals himself, Judah’s focus turns to
placating Joseph.
When Judah and his brothers reentered the house of Joseph, who
was still there they threw themselves on the ground before him. Joseph said to
them, “What is this deed that you have done? Do you not know that a man like me
practices divination?” Judah replied, “What can we say to my lord? How can we
plead, how can we prove our innocence? God has uncovered the crime of your
servants. Here we are, then, slaves of my lord, the rest of us as much as he in
whose possession the goblet was found.” (Genesis 44:14-16)
Joseph sees the
world, and his place in it, differently. He lives among the Egyptians. He
dedicates his life energies to seeing that they survive the famine. He settles
his family in Goshen where they can live together but are not wholly isolated
from the Egyptians. The Rabbis noted that Psalm 81:6 spells Joseph’s names with
an additional hey: יהוסף rather than יוסף.
The Sages of the Talmud (Sotah 36b) tell us that the angel Gabriel added a hey to Joseph’s name, a letter from
God’s name, and midrash (Bereishit Rabbah
12:9) explains that the additional hey
enables Joseph to understand each nation’s language and appreciate their
spiritual potential.
In short: Judah is able to see only what is. Joseph is able to see
potential. Judah focuses inward on preservation. Joseph focuses outward on
possibility.
The seeming
choice of where to invest our energy and effort is for many a perennial dilemma.
If we do not attend to the present and effectively pass down our traditions to
the next generation, how many next generations will there be? That is the fear buttressed
by the results of the Pew Study. Yet if we live isolated, insular lives, how
can we fulfill our purpose and have a positive impact on the world beyond our
own communal borders? What difference does it make that Israel exists, if we
exist only for ourselves?
Perhaps Hillel
put it best, and note that he uttered these words more than 2,000 years ago
long before the Pew Study was issued:
If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am for myself
alone, what am I? If not now, when? (BT Pirke Avot 1:14)
The tension
between self-preservation motivated insularity and assimilation-risking
openness is with us in every generation. It always has been. The trick—and
truly it is a magical dance—is to maintain a balance between the two. If we do
not preserve our traditions and identity, we cannot pass our heritage and
values to our children, let alone contribute to the world. If we have no
positive impact on the world outside our own communal borders, then we exist
selfishly for ourselves alone. There is no magic formula, no magic wand, and
there are no guarantees. But one thing is certain: We need to keep the ends—both
Joseph’s and Judah’s—in mind. If we raise our children in an environment of
joyous and meaningful Judaism, we can accomplish both ends. No guarantees, of
course, but what in life is certain save death and taxes, as Benjamin Franklin
noted. But take heart: a joyous, meaningful Jewish life will appealingly convey
tradition to future generations, and facilitate our sharing the wisdom of our
tradition with the world. And there’s a bonus: it will be religiously and
spiritually satisfying to us. So it’s a win-win-win. Please keep Hillel’s
wisdom in mind: If
not now, when?
© Rabbi Amy
Scheinerman